Ava
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Today is Father's Day and you are about 2 weeks away from turning 3 years old with quite the little voice and personality. Over the past 6 months or so you have been very reluctant to want to be with your daddy. Plain and simple, you much prefer to be with me. I know you don't mean the hurtful things you say to your daddy (i.e. I don't like you, I like mommy better or I don't love you) and not even sure why you say them. You don't understand it now and while we know you really don't mean them it really does hurt your daddy's feelings. He doesn't understand why you don't want to be with him when quite frankly he is the cooler one of the two of us. You play music together (he has taught you how to play the drums), you go to the park together, go on walks together, he makes sure you have a bath and that your teeth are properly brushed twice a day, says night prayers with you and as I type this is playing kitchen with you. He loves you so much!
Tonight before we went out for dinner I wanted to snap a quick photo to remember this Father's Day 2010 together as a family and even for that you resisted. "No, I don't want to take a picture!" Reluctantly, you came down the stairs.....daddy grabbed you......and click. I got the shot. This shot. That when I see it, nothing but innocence and love. Even though you can be a little stinker to your daddy I know you love him.

Happy Father's Day Chris. Cherish these moments.....although few and far between now, I know that when she is 16 and not wanting to be with me, YOU will be her favorite person.